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Same with the OP: “The romantic relationships I build tend to be very close and friendly…the woman probably has some attraction and attachment.” The reason that is is because the OP is letting that happen — letting closeness develop in a situation where he is ultimately incapable of making a serious commitment. So he doesn’t get brownie points for being a nice guy: if you don’t want to be a jerk, then don’t be a jerk. You’re not doing them any favors by letting them think you’re anything other than a manipulative commitmentphobe.
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mjd says:
May 23, 2011 at 10:26 am
The Ins and Outs of Telephone Love!
3 Ways to Handle Your Man's "Boys Night Out" With Ease!
5 Ways to Overcome Your Insecurity
Inside a Man's Mind
Why Men Pull Away When Women Share Their Feelings
5 Secrets to Everlasting Love
Celebrate The Good Things in Life
Same with the OP: “The romantic relationships I build tend to be very close and friendly…the woman probably has some attraction and attachment.” The reason that is is because the OP is letting that happen — letting closeness develop in a situation where he is ultimately incapable of making a serious commitment. So he doesn’t get brownie points for being a nice guy: if you don’t want to be a jerk, then don’t be a jerk. You’re not doing them any favors by letting them think you’re anything other than a manipulative commitmentphobe.
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mjd says:
May 23, 2011 at 10:26 am